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Why NOT to raise ‘people-pleasers’
Why NOT to raise ‘people-pleasers’ 150 150 Jane Evans

Don’t make a fuss As a parent or carer it can seem like a major part of your child-raising mission is to encourage children not to stand out when others…

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What Foster Carers Need from Their Family and Friends (and what they don’t)
What Foster Carers Need from Their Family and Friends (and what they don’t) 150 150 Jane Evans

I’m writing this at the request of a foster carer I’ve had the privilege of working with. She wants something she can show those close to her that will help…

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If I could, I would
If I could, I would 150 150 Jane Evans

You Don’t Know but You Need Too (Based on the story of a young person I worked with who gave me permission to share his early years experiences) You don’t…

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Preparing the canvas for infant mental health – how early can it be?
Preparing the canvas for infant mental health – how early can it be? 150 150 Jane Evans

    When should we start to be concerned about an infant’s mental health? Thus far in infant mental health week #imhw, there have been some great posts on social…

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Are These The Four S’s of 21st Century Childhood – Stress Sadness Screens Sugar??
Are These The Four S’s of 21st Century Childhood – Stress Sadness Screens Sugar?? 150 150 Jane Evans

    Images from Pixabay   I held a screening of the amazing Resilience documentary in Bristol yesterday. It was the third time I’d watched so for the first few…

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Parenting a child with ACES
Parenting a child with ACES 150 150 Jane Evans

What are ACES? About 20 years ago a medical physician got curious about what lay behind his patient’s obesity. It was 1985, and Dr. Vincent Felitti was mystified. The physician,…

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“Modern Mothers have lost the plot”
“Modern Mothers have lost the plot” 150 150 Jane Evans

Image from Pixabay Where to start with such hogwash?! On a recent This Morning programme Ruth and Eammon were talking with Rachel Waddilove about the need to adhere to old…

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How even a ‘fear of poverty’ could be an ACE for a developing child
How even a ‘fear of poverty’ could be an ACE for a developing child 150 150 Jane Evans

Image from Pixabay Fear of poverty I’m not sure I can say I’ve lived in poverty, but I have lived in fear of it. For many years, my parents lived…

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When terrible things happen…..go slowly
When terrible things happen…..go slowly 150 150 Jane Evans

When terrible things happen to a child, or that a child is aware of, such as the recent bombing in Manchester where children were killed in a suicide bombing, they…

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Stoicism for children or someone to listen?
Stoicism for children or someone to listen? 150 150 Jane Evans

According to the Oxford Dictionary ‘stoical’ means, ‘Enduring pain and hardship without showing one’s feelings or complaining.’ I question the benefits of this when it comes to building and maintaining…

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